What do you do when you feel uncomfortable? Yesterday, I shared about having overwhelming feelings - that are not in our control. They Just Happen! I suppose this could be a good thing or a bad thing depending on our response. We could compare this to survival responses of Fight, Flight or Fawn. This can …
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Billy Idol should be Dead. Billy Idol should be Dead is the name of the Documentary about Billy Idol. Why should he be dead? The guy led a drug fueled, insane lifestyle that nearly killed him. It is unfortunately, a common theme in the Music and Hollywood scene. In reality, this story is quite common …
Most people don’t. We’ve confused feeling something strongly with being grounded. We’ve mistaken intensity for depth. But desire is loud and maturity is steady. Desire says, “I need this now.”Maturity says, “I’m not ruled by what I feel.” Emotional immaturity isn’t about having desires, it’s about being controlled by them. It’s the need to feel …
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Can you see it? Can you read it? Do you like that it is partially hidden? What do you do to feel good? Do you tell lies? Are you a liar? In my 12 step program, I often deal with men who are compulsive liars. They not only lie to get sex, but they lie …
Like how do we know God’s truth and still choose the lie? Today, I am reflecting on my active sex addiction days. When I think back on those days, I recall how I held a very high standard. High standard for you. Meaning - It was ok if I didn’t meet the standard.However, you better. …
