Last night I got a phone all from a guy in my 12-step group. It was late. Very late. I had thought about him earlier in the day and then he texted me out of the blue. It had been a minute since we talked. Our discussion took the direction of VENTING. I really like …
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Yesterday my wife and I were talking and she made a statement to me. She said, “ You are giving this too much power.” My response? Thank you for saying that. It was the jolt I needed to have a second look. Power is a word that some people struggle with. Some struggle with it …
Are you posturing? I am not talking about standing up straight. I am asking if you have the perfect Facebook Life. - Cyber I am asking if you present yourself in social atmospheres as superior, more spiritual, or tough to appear righteous to others. - Social I am asking if you are pretending not to …
Can you see it? Can you read it? Do you like that it is partially hidden? What do you do to feel good? Do you tell lies? Are you a liar? In my 12 step program, I often deal with men who are compulsive liars. They not only lie to get sex, but they lie …
I was at a stop light. I looked over to my right and I observed a man in his car still wearing his safety vest from work. Then? He lifted a can of Bush Light beer and proceeded to drink. This man looked safe. At least for a couple seconds. The TRUTH about that man …
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